I went to the movies with my wife. I wanted to see "You Don't Mess with the Zohan," my wife wanted to watch Sex and the City. Sex and the City turned out to be as good as she expected. My wife and I spent three of our precious free time to watch this movie. Once you have children, their needs make it almost impossible to have free time. One scene in the movie reminded me of Dearborn Arab women. Carrie was about to move in with her boyfriend. She expressed anxiety that the place she would call home, in the event of a falling out she would have no legal rights to. Then they decide to get married. As an attorney who practices family law, I have come across a number of Arab Muslim women who put themselves in a situation that Carrie wanted to avoid. A number of local couples opt to have a religious marriage but not a civil marriage. (This is a phenomenon worthy of a systematic study). They go to an Imam who marries them, does Katb al Kitab for them. Imams, as well as other cl...